Codependency / People Pleasing – Jump Start Program

How important is working on having a stable marriage to lead your family?

Our intensives are custom designed for you and your unique challenges. We identify what you as an individual need to overcome all relationship difficulties and teach you how to have healthy and godly boundaries. This intensive will come with a custom created book filled with the tools that you are missing and focusing only on the areas that you specifically need.

Our 2 or 3 day Intensives are designed to give you a Jump Start to break out of destructive patterns. This intensive is for people who need to recognize and change how they over commit, save, rescue, and enable problem behaviors in their relationships. These behaviors bring exhaustion, stress, and anxiety. Spending 16 – 24 hours in a 2-3 day intensive program is like a Jump Start of 4 – 6 months of counseling to break free from ingrained habits that hinder your life. It provides you with deep understanding, a road map of how to continue to move forward, and a toolbox filled with tools and new skills to apply.
We identify and separate the “Presenting Problems versus Root Problems.”

Too many workshops and counseling only focus on your today challenge and put a band aid on it instead of removing the root system that fuels it. Healthy relationships require boundaries as God is a God of boundaries and consequences. Long term solutions cannot be layered on top of faulty foundations with root problems that drive codependent behaviors. You need a change in thinking, beliefs and the tools to walk differently in according to true biblical principles. We deal with all the issues from the root system up. Our intensive is not generic and leaves relationship, behavioral pattern, or root development problems out.

You like so many others, may need to rebuild your true God identity, align your thinking to God’s truth about you, your relationships, future, and develop the tools to walk it out. You will create a solid foundation and gain insight and understanding to why and how you developed these patterns in your thinking, beliefs, personal triggers, and behavior patterns so that you are empowered to change them. You will receive a Jump Start into the process of developing skills to find empowering solutions for a more fulfilling life.

Identify and Lay the Foundation

• You are a unique individual by design: You will learn about your unique temperament design with all of your tendencies and needs and learn the tools and skills to apply to help with your weaknesses and maximize your strengths
• Learn the experiences that promoted codependency and people pleasing challenges
• Identify the messages from these experiences that produced the thinking patterns and core beliefs that drive your behaviors, responses, and life skills
• Identify wounds that developed and affect healing to remove these roots that drive your thinking and your behaviors
• Identify learned behaviors that were modeled for you that promoted beliefs and life skills that you operate in today so that you see it as “normal” and reshape God’s definition of healthy in your responses

Build a toolbox in the following areas:

• Learn the how to take your thoughts captive, tear down the mental strongholds, and develop healthy self talk
• Learn 6 Discernment Tools
• Learn how to restructure your thinking to produce a lasting change in your responses and behaviors
• Evaluate codependent development, messages, thoughts and core beliefs, behavior patterns and consequences
• Be Proactive and not Reactive
• Learn the “15 Most Essential Needs” that all people require
• Identify the “20 Healthy Behaviors in Relationships”
• Learn to identify 18 types of abuse, 25 types of subtle emotional or verbal abuses, control, and manipulation and learn tools to respond to them
• Practice applying Boundaries in every area of your life

This program is designed to be adapted to your specific needs and challenges.

A 1-2 hour sessions is required for background and to gear the workshop specifically to your individual needs. Follow up sessions are available to help you continue and apply all that you have learned with accountability.
Intensives can be adapted for group workshops.
Call to schedule a workshop in your church or group.