Sexuality Issues

Sexuality Issues

Men and women were designed by God as sexual creatures, and your sexuality was formed since your infancy. You received messages about male and female relationships, love, and sex, from watching the people around you. How your parents taught you about your body parts, if they used anatomically correct names, or nick names for male and female genitals. How were you bathed, taught about modesty, and much more that promoted messages that formed your sexuality.

Did you see healthy displays of affection between your parents, or did you see multiples divorces, boyfriends, and girlfriends from the adults in your life? When you watched television with your dad did he make comments about women, and their bodies? Did mom ignore pornography in the house? Did someone inappropriately touch you; did you experience any form of sexual abuse? Did anyone hear your voice, or were you silenced, and no one knew or responded to these harmful experiences. These are just a few of the types of life events that you may have had in childhood that gave you messages of what “normal” looked like.

Did you receive messages that screamed “this is just what men do,” or “this is all that women can expect?” These messages are what formed the foundation of your sexuality. We live in a culture where sexual addiction is epidemic, sexual confusion is commonplace, and sexual abuse is rampant. Is it any wonder that many people seek help with all forms of sexual twisting?

We were all born into a sinful world, a uniquely created soul designed perfectly by a God who has, “…plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future.” (Jeremiah 29:11)

It is not your design that is the problem; it is not a gene or your DNA that turned your path. If that were so how could God hold you accountable and tell you that you “can do all things through Christ who strengthens me. (Philippians 4:13)

You have experienced the affects of developing in a sinful world that has created a twisting in your body, soul, and spirit. The word iniquity in Hebrew means to bend or twist. That is what has happened to all mankind in areas of thinking, beliefs, expectations, and behaviors. This includes in your sexuality.

Well, here is the good news. Anything that a sinful world has twisted in your thinking, expectations, or behaviors, can be untwisted. I have counseled thousands of people and have many, many, people in recovery from all forms of sexual addictions that are free to have healthy and happy relationships without bondage.

You can overcome any challenge, but you need to pull out the root system that laid the foundation. Then you can succeed without a constant struggle for life. You need tools to apply this truth to your life. God desires you to live your life to the fullest and He created sex to be a blessing in the context that He designed it to be enjoyed.

– Dr. Michele

“Empowering Solutions For A More Fulfilling Life!”

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